It’s estimated 200,000 American’s will undergo gastric bypass surgery this year. Only 15 percent, 30,000, will be guys. Yet obesità figures in this state indicate morbid obesity isn’t gender specific. About 60 percent of American women and men are obese. Why are so few men, relatively speaking, going under the knife to perdere peso? It’s long been known that when a person wants to drop peso he will go to the gym, pump some iron and perhaps run a few laps.
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Seldom does he head for the kitchen to fix a healthy, balanced low calorie meal. Men are genetically predisposed to shed weight more quickly than girls. Most specialists agree men tend to shed weight quicker because they generally have more lean muscle mass and a decrease body grasso percentage than girls. Said simply, men generally have a higher metabolism, or speed at which they burn off calories, since they have more muscle. Given the much better odds for faster success can we conclude that men are choosing traditional perdita di peso methods – dieta and exercise – before considering gastric bypass as a plausible choice? Perhaps.
But it’s been my experience that overweight men, like fat women, are ashamed of being obese, ashamed of failing to drop weight and embarrassed to choose the last-resort surgical option for weight reduction. And unlike women, men do not cluster to discuss their”feelings” or the pity and self-loathing that accompanies obesity. Unsurprisingly, many men feel quite alone in their battle of the bulge. One man, William, who secretly underwent gastric bypass said, “it’s quite tough for men to reach out and ask for help since obesity is still very much regarded as a ‘women’s malattia’. Men may also not need to come forward for paura people will think that they are vain or worse ” When someone asks William how he’s losing weight he replies with a slap on the back and a wink, “Working my ass off in the gym, friend – you need to try it!” He does not even cite diet, portion control or nourishment.
Women are more often prompted to pursue weight loss, such as gastric bypass, for self-esteem difficulties. They will need to recover a feeling of self-worth or validation, they have to feel attractive to prospective mates. Women often perceive that being obese is a character defect and by fixing it that they could become a better person. Many believe media demonstration of perfection fuels this perception. Men have generally been resistant to unrealistic standards and an obese man was one of affluence and prosperity. These days a growing number of guys are motivated to lie on the surgical table for health reasons, few will acknowledge having surgery to enhance their self-esteem.
Obesity related health issues frighten, and possibly, shame guys to have surgery, lose weight and become healthier. But societal stigma shames men into keeping silent about it. Because men are reluctant to go public with their obesity solution there’s too little male-bonding or service for one another. Surprisingly guys tend to observe the same”magic moments” girls do when it comes to massive weight loss. Wouldn’t it be great if he had a support community of guys who were celebrating the very same milestones?
In the context of human relationship male bonding is most likely to take place on the sports field, in the pub or at the stadium stands. Perhaps this is where the WLS male contingent should gather, as opposed to in the standard meeting room on folding chairs. Given a familiar and comfortable environment where the words”emotions” and”feelings” are not requisite if I publish WLS men could build a camaraderie based on shared experience and common empathy. Will that bust the societal stigma for obese men who opted to restrain their obesity with surgery? Probably not. But if it can help one or two or a hundred men become more self-respecting and much more self-assured then why not? Meanwhile, we have many male contributors to LivingAfterWLS. Rob is one of them. I’m happy you’re here.